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Getting Better Rest
The importance of rest and sleep cannot be underestimated. Lack of alertness, impaired memory, increased vulnerability to emotional...
Oct 3, 2022




Radical Acceptance
is not helplessness, hopelessness, or lack of change. Denial: "I can do 99 things just the way my wife says she wants them, and if the...
Sep 12, 2022


Self Soothing with 5 Senses and 2 Dimensions
No matter how rough things are for you right now…Especially if it seems like there’s no end to your difficulties…You deserve relief. When...
Sep 5, 2022


Self-Inquiry: Key to being an emotionally healthy adult
"It is really about self awareness. We cannot be more connected to other people than we are to ourselves.”
Aug 23, 2022


At the edge of a "disordered" personality?
The label, "borderline personality disorder" (BPD) is simply inscrutable. It describes nothing about this mental illness and it sounds...
Jul 31, 2022




ANXIETY: It's not what you think!
The Merriam-Webster dictionary has several definitions of anxiety:
Jul 11, 2022


ER3: Problem Solving
If we can change the emotion by solving the problem, then first solve the problem! Problem solving is an emotional regulation strategy...
Jun 7, 2022


Emotional Regulation
with OPPOSITE ACTION Opposite action is more than a skill. It is a philosophy of life. Like dialectics or radical acceptance or...
Jun 1, 2022


Learn new skills this summer
Stop Walking On Eggshells DBT Workshop for Families of persons with borderline personality disorder Summer schedule: 12 Fridays June...
May 31, 2022




ER: Emotional Regulation Intro
Arguably one of the most important life skills in DBT!
May 11, 2022


DBT in schools!
Parents demanded it and their call was heard. "DBT Steps-A" has been developed and tested in schools for a wide range of adolescents with...
May 10, 2022


Self-Compassion: The Ultimate Source of Emotional Recovery
I have attended several interesting conferences on trauma in the past year. It seems that experts from all types of psychology "lineages" are moving toward a few integrated practices. One that really makes a lot of sense is the practice of self-compassion. When we feel our discomfort, acknowledge our own pain, and put words on the physical experience of our suffering -- including emotional suffering, we are engaging of a mindful awareness of our experience. It is holding that
May 5, 2022




Setting Boundaries: Q&A with Randi Kreger
Case 1: Setting Boundaries on adolescent yelling and insulting Excerpts from the live Q & A, April 7, 2022, with Randi and Corrine...
May 2, 2022


Long-Term Prognosis of Borderline Personality Disorder
Corrine R. Stoewsand, Ph.D. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) was once used as a pejorative label by clinicians for patients who were...
Apr 28, 2022


Borderline Personality Disorder is not the parent’s “fault”
Corrine Stoewsand I recently remembered being in a psychology class several years ago. It was a course on psychopathology, the psychology...
Apr 18, 2022


Ooops! Now what? How do I say I’m sorry?
I made a mistake. I did something, perhaps an accident or perhaps it was behavior outside of my own values, and it had negative...
Mar 11, 2022
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