I know you are a sensitive person, and I might add exquisitely sensitive sometimes. I know that I can say or do things that trigger an intense reaction, which can be a very unpleasant experience for you. It can be hard for you to believe I would do or say those things without realizing how hurtful they are. I can see how much thought you put into trying to fix confusion and prevent emotional pain. I can see how much energy you put into trying to help me understand what I di